Quote Originally Posted by Selash View Post
Most of us know of the Dominants Creed and the submissives Creed.
Actually I don't know the creed. I guess I ain't a good dominant or missed that chapter in the manual. Perhaps somebody would be kind enough to tell me who the creed author is so I can find it somewhere.

As for me, relationships are by denifinition a personal thing, so to have a creed which is in some way imposed on others ain't for me. That would mean I am following the rules or guidelines set by others. I prefer freestyle and will live outside of the box.

That's not to say anything wrong with Selash's creed. Works for him, great. But in my relationships people know what kind of guy I am by my actions not my words. My woman used to ask me why I never said I loved her or asked her to marry. I answered, "ask me next year". And she did and got the same answer. Now 10 years later she has stopped asking. I remind her now and tell her to look at other couples who said they loved each other and even took wedding vows. I ask "are they together 10 years on?". On my deathbed, should she ask me, I will say "ask me again in the next life"