Quote Originally Posted by Hime View Post
...To me, being a Dom means taking responsibility for someone, and that means being there for them when they need nurturing and not just when they need discipline.

I kind of feel bad for people who seem to not want their partner (male or female) to treat them with love and respect. It seems like a sign of really low self worth.
I couldnt agree more with this statement. Lots of people get involved in bdsm with low self esteem, and there are a sad number of doms who prey on that. Not just the inexperienced ones, either.

It's ALL about taking responsibility. Everything else is secondary, imo. Well said, Hime.

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