Quote Originally Posted by abitbent
Again... let me state one more time for those who seem to have all the answers... i know nobody is making me come here and read these stories. That said, associating snuff with bdsm offends me as a man who's sexuality identifies as kinky or D/s or submissive.

I'm simply saying i'm offended that snuff is being expressed here as part of bdsm.
As supermod I get at least two pm's a week (just got another one last night) with complaints about some story that is offensive to the reader and I always give roughly the same answer: Sorry it offends you, but if you don't like it, read something else.

Snuff has nothing to do with the real practice of BDSM. And most cops don't kill a guy every week. And most doctors don't have horribly interesting and life changing cases every week. And most people's lives aren't anywhere near as interesting as the lives of our tv people. Those shows are loosely based on reality with elements to make them more interesting to the viewer. Same goes with the snuff stories. They're BDSM stories with elements to make them more interesting to the readers who enjoy reading about snuff. So I still don't see how having snuff in a story makes it any more or less a BDSM story than having say...rape in the story. Or incest. Or threesomes. Or blowjobs. Or...you get my point? BDSM stands for Bondage, Discipline, Sadism and Masochism. Or even Bondage, Discipline, Domination and Submission, Sadism and Masochism if you like. D/s stands for dominance/submission. So anything outside of those definitions really isn't BDSM either, it's simply extra stuff to liven up the story. No pun intended.