An embarassing question

[gloombunny]

Can you really 'become' a masochist, though? I can understand how one can learn to tolerate more pain, but I'm not sure you can teach yourself beyond a classical conditioning level to become aroused/pleasured by it if that's not your natural response.

It is, though... to a certain extent.

I want to extend that extent. :)


Thanks for the advice, everyone! I think I've got some ideas on where to go from here... although I haven't got a dominant man or woman in my life, so some of it wasn't quite applicable. I'll do my best anyway. ^_^