I have had subs and slaves over the last 35 years, most from meeting them without any help. I knew what I was looking for and became quite skilled at finding women who were submissive but didn't know it yet.

2 marriages later though I found my current love and now slave through the net. A Domme friend of mine had me go to an adult dating site and after reading through 200 or so profiles I found her.

Now she is driving me crazy and I am loving it. She wanted a Daddy Dom but actually needed my old hardcore self first to train her to be what she wants to be.

She is lovely and intelligent with a painslut tendency that she is now admitting too. I have loved causing pain in limited doses but all ways hated the whip or flogger. Dear sweet mom used a rubber hose cut to a long cat of nine tails on me as a teen since then the thought of them made me ill. Last week though because she begged me so sweetly I used her soft suede flogger on her and what do you know I am a natural, or so she says.

Any ways I am deeply in love with what can only be described as a brat, enjoying being with her and guiding her to the slave she wants and needs to be.

I will give you updates, since it has been a roller coaster ride so far.