If my Domm asks me to do some thing like up his shirt from the cleaners and i say the hell with it and dont do it , yet i want to stay in the relationship ,my Domm asks me why and flip him off with a smart ass repley , he then deciedes its time to punish me , do i have the right to say no even though i want the relationship to continue. I dont think i do.
If a Dom has asked a sub to carry out a task, the sub should carry it out within a reasonable time frame for that task and to the best of their ability. I do not believe that the sub should 'just not do it' if there is not a good reason for them not to have done it. If the sub can not, or does not want to do the task, they may discuss this with the Dom, but at the end of the day it is the Dom's final say depending on the 'rules' in the relationship.

With regard to hte swallowing i can see if its going to bring up things the sub cant deal with then i agree with u but in this case its saying no to swalowing because the sub just dosent want to . i dont know but ithink the Domm has the right to demand it maybe im wrong but its the way i feel
The Dom has no right to demand something which is a limit for you, even if it's a soft one. Limits are yours, for your reasons and you do not have to cross them if you do not want to.