This is a toughie and I can only speak for myself.Originally Posted by fantassy
I'm a firm believer that sex occurs first in the mind, mental foreplay, all day long, all week long, or maybe an hour before play, but first in the mind.
If you can get wet or hard during this period of foreplay, being given the permission to cum is just a trigger response and physical stimulation is an afterthought.
The cum (for me) is not as intense as it is with physical stimulation, but the high before, during, and after, is so *looks dreamy intense, it is worth trying to get there. And that is the hook.