I personally would refuse to accept a sub/slave that would not swallow for me. So it is a good reason to go through a complete check list and compare notes. If, as in my questionaire, she put a no on swallowing cum and I have put a 5 (top ranking) on having my cum swallowed then we have a large problem add up 2 or 3 of these and it shows that your not right for each other.
I am willing for the right sub/slave to do without certain things but I also know the ones I truly won't ever give up and still be happy.