You need to be creative. Think about what you would do to her if she was right there for you. Now think it through again and decide how she can do it for you at a distance.

I use this one for subs that have low physical self esteem, thinks her body is not attractive. I have her wear heels hose and as short a skirt as she has, could be dress, then good push up bra. Have her done and make up and then go to the local grocery store without any panties on. Her first visit she will be very self conscious. She is too watch with mirrors or just out of corner of her eyes how many men are paying close attention to her. First time there she will not be very sure and rarely able to explain what and who watched her. The second or third trip there she will be excited and have a lot of remembrances of men watching her the whole time.