Again, I am not saying that there is one way to live the life it is too huge for that. I may be old fashioned though that I consider myself a craftsman in my area of the life, I study it from many different sources, I spend time planning sessions so that I can avoid painful mistakes, that was a lesson taught to me by my Mentor.
I do use the term Sir it was given to me by my Guild and so I use it here and every where in BDSM circles.
I am a modern knight errant or maybe it is that I am an errant knight.
I do what I can, where I can, and love when I can ..... Sir Russell