Yes that's exactly how I see myself, an untrained Dom. Or maybe just a guy who likes playing around a bit & isn't happy with being labelled in what I do.

The girls I play with are certainly no less important than I am, in my mind what I do is for them. As for them being lesser beings, no one who knew them would ever say that!

One other thing to remember with all these categories people are so free with, no two relationships are the same. It seems to be a trend in the community that people should act in a particular way & play a role to suit the 'movement' rather than the special relationship they're in with that one person.

We have little enough freedom in everyday life- no bugger is going to take away any more of mine.

Tojo