But Sir Russell, did you not still consider yourself a Dom even during those times that you had no one? Yes, it can be very lonely, and sometimes sad, but I still consider myself submissive, even though I don't have a Dom right now. I am very happy being just me, and have found that I would rather be alone, than to just "play around," while waiting for the "one." It may mean that I will always be alone, but I refuse to settle for less.

just my two cents