your take on the difference between Top, Dom, or Master and bottom, sub and slave

[Sir_Russell]

learningtopleez

hmm raging indicated my need and displeasure at being without. I still say that a either party without the opposite is strictly potential.

I also believe firmly that in the life and for the life the one we search for is the person that allows you to be whole, complete and this makes you happy. I am happy with me and like me very much alone but being with my one as I now am brings the "topping", if you will pardon my pun, like chocolate syrup on ice cream, otherwise why do we search for our one.

I too am quite a carpenter but again I can't carp without wood.

You learningtopleez are right though find the one that has what you crave, then be the best submissive possible. If that is your photo I bet your real problem is working through the wannabee crowd to find a couple of real ones.

ANYONE CAN OVERPOWER, BUT NOT MANY CAN INSPIRE
it is a quote I came up with last night and though it is about real Doms it is the same for real submissives.
ANYONE CAN SUBMIT, BUT NOT MANY CAN INSPIRE
that is a tribute to my morgan

[learningtopleez]

Thank you Sir Russel for making your opinion easier to understand! And if I do understand you correctly, finding the "one" is like having that chocolate syrup on your ice cream...it just makes everything better. Complete even.

And no, that isn't my pic....it would be nice, but it's just an avatar I found on-line. But I do seem to run into a lot of wannabees, or Dom's that think they should immediately say things to me like "Wanna be my cumslut?" I certainly don't understand that kind of thinking. I mean, wouldn't it be nice to be friends first and go from there? Don't get me wrong, I love being submissive with the right Dom (and I am a cumslut, but only with a certain one), and had a wonderful experience with a teacher Dom last year, but he started out being nice first. We discussed lots of things, not just bdsm. And he took me places I had never been (submissive wise), and haven't been since.

Thank you for encouraging me to find the one I crave!

And I like your quotes btw!