Thank you Sir Russel for making your opinion easier to understand! And if I do understand you correctly, finding the "one" is like having that chocolate syrup on your ice cream...it just makes everything better. Complete even.

And no, that isn't my pic....it would be nice, but it's just an avatar I found on-line. But I do seem to run into a lot of wannabees, or Dom's that think they should immediately say things to me like "Wanna be my cumslut?" I certainly don't understand that kind of thinking. I mean, wouldn't it be nice to be friends first and go from there? Don't get me wrong, I love being submissive with the right Dom (and I am a cumslut, but only with a certain one), and had a wonderful experience with a teacher Dom last year, but he started out being nice first. We discussed lots of things, not just bdsm. And he took me places I had never been (submissive wise), and haven't been since.

Thank you for encouraging me to find the one I crave!

And I like your quotes btw!