Orgasm on Demand

[TheThinMan]

Yep! Associative training.

There are a lot of ways to approach it. That works.

I like to add another step first. My approach involves training your sub to come often and easily, also with an associated tone or turn of words and physical contact. Then, proceed to orgasm denial, allowing release only with the necessary words and contact.

I find that to be especially effective.

Ahh. That may explain why I've been having so much trouble with this. Pet is one hard nut to crack, requiring manual stimulation until my hand starts to cramp before she climaxes.

[H Dean]

Ahh. That may explain why I've been having so much trouble with this. Pet is one hard nut to crack, requiring manual stimulation until my hand starts to cramp before she climaxes.

Too many people try to make their girl cum by stimulating her themselves. Well, no one rubs you better than you. So, have your girl stimulate herself.

As has been suggested, not allowing them to climax until commanded is key. Make them suffer with the need and then, when they are about ready to burst, tell them to cum. Always use the same word/phrase. I always command my girl to "cum for me".

The interesting part of this is that, once they are trained in this manner, you can train them to cum to certain words. This can be particularly frustrating (for her) when a stranger or acquaintance speaks the word and your girl has a quiet (maybe) moment of embarrassing bliss. The trick with word association is to replace the word "cum" with the word "watermelon", or whatever fun word you use. When they need to cum they must ask "may I watermelon", which sounds stupid, at first. Eventually, it will work. I've noticed that those who resist the strongest tend to be those who are also most succeptable.

Dean