Quote Originally Posted by ozme52
This may become a hot topic... we have a real difference of opinion, at least as to how to start. LOL
So we do. I have found that it doesn't really matter how fast she reaches that point. In fact, I tend to draw it out by making her stop when she does not want to. In all my experiences this heightens her sexual need. The pressure to reach that point can sometimes be of hinderance. Once she is accustomed to masturbating in front of you, to your voice and command, those orgasms will come in very short time spans.

In other words: don't rush her. Make her stop when it feels good. Make her beg to rub herself again. Then repeat. It's like washing hair only more fun.