Well that's just so arrogant it makes me laugh. To think, I'm not a Star Trek fan because I don't wear uniforms and have prosthetic ears... or I'm not worthy to be a NASCAR devotee because I don't drive... or... or... or... ad infinitum.

What makes you think l don't take it seriously just because I don't necessarily live it 24/7. You're, in essence, dismissing the vast majority of the bdsm community.