your very right Oz, I know a man that could either way and thankfully he is listening and learning from me. I have hope to turn him into a good competent Dom, not a clone of me because we have very different desires but that is too be expected.

Those few of us that are real truly owe it to the Life to mentor and teach. I would say that the numbers you quoted are off by 50% that there are 20 subs or potential subs out there for each Dom that is really interested in the sub as a person not as fresh meat.