I truly understand this with all my heart, I get get ladies that have read my stuff and think they know me and that I will just know how to treat them. Some get upset when I remind them that I don't know them and that they don't really know who I am either.

With me I think you have a fair chance of judging right because I do put myself out there when I write but still take some time to know me and allow the same for yourself for me.