well technically if you liked punishment it wouldnt exactly be a punishment.
shrugs I don't see it as bordering on abuse...it worked, the behavior hasnt been repeated so lesson learned.Punishments are supposed to correct a wrong behavior not for pleasure(well at least for us,how others do things is their business) So because I may not like a punishment I am given I should look for a new husband/Master? If I found a new husband/Master for everything he did I didnt particulary like I would have been married about 200 times already