Orgasm on Demand

[Brosco]

fantassy,
I think that for the 'enquiring minds that want to know' - nopers, that was not too much detail at all. I hope that we continue to have success together and have even more to report... and yes, in such detail

For any that are viewing this to perhaps try this for themselves, I thought that after fantassy reports any of our milestones, I would also add a few comments of my own, which I hope my be useful or at least of interest.

As you should realise that at this time the arousal is achieved with aids, not just voice, and that the aids are still in use when I eventually command 'cum for me'. At this stage we are building the strength not to cum, no matter how aroused and how much on edge, plus reinforcing that cumming is associated with my command to do so. So it is a milestone that fantassy achieved her first multiple O's, plus finally, real multiples O's that just ran into each other and continued. This was obviously not because of continued stimulation, because the multiples stopped immediately I commanded also.

Just before we achieved the first multiple we did have one 'failure' that was my fault. I had given the usual command and fantassy failed to cum, so she kept trying harder and harder to 'make' herself obey. (I am sure that many have experience being on edge, but the harder they try to cum, the more they frustrate themselves). I had failed to explain a vital element here. With the order 'cum for me', the subbie should not try to 'help' by trying to achieve it quickly. All the subbie should do is remove her will to resist an O, and now ALLOW an O to happen. If it happens immediately - GREAT - but if it takes some time for the mindset to switch, that is fine, but the subbie's job is purely to change her mindset from blocking an O to allowing an O - let the Dom (and the aids) actually make it happen. I hope I explained that reasonably clearly, please feel free to ask if I didn't.

Brosco

[Nikita]

Brosco that was an awesome afterpost. It was clearly written and I can say that we've played using a similar method.

The key phrase you used was All the subbie should do is remove her will to resist an O, and now ALLOW an O to happen.

Your subbie is lucky! :

[fantazmaster]

Intetresting series of posts on this subject of orgasm on demand.Here is the link to an article from a fellow who wrote an article on achieving this type of training with a female subject.An intetresting "how it is done" article,but also I
appreciate the various cautions and warnings supplied by the author.

http://domsubfriends.com/voye/articles/100/

[perfectlittleslave]

I can hold themfor long periods but when given the command as hard as I try I can not do it right away. It usually takes a few seconds because of holding it so long. Is this a problem with other subs or what? My Dom is patient and is willing to teach but I am getting frustrated. Can anyone help in this?