There is a major difference here between what fantassy and I are doing and what was described in that article. First and foremost, what we are doing is fully consensual. Second, not only do I describe to fantassy exactly what I am doing and how I am achieving it, I have also described here for others to see along with fantassy. There is nothing devious, no deception. Sure, I use positive reinforcement as a tool, but I also can joke with fantassy to also remind her exacctly what I am doing.

The article you posted is nothing to do with a couple consensually working towards a goal - it is about one abusing another. Yes ... what fantassy and I do together consensually is abuse if one sided. To me that article was about rape of the mind.

The warnings about how a person can be raped become useless when provided by someone that clearly will rape another.

Brosco