Quote Originally Posted by submissivewife
This sounds like distress to me. She gave details because that what is needed for us to understand. Also, why should she fear of speaking up? Sounds like she is distessed over how things have gone beyond where she wanted to go.
The reason for my comment was because of having worked with abused people, most abused people are reluctant to discuss their abuse and certainly to openly volunteer details that they would find extremely humiliating, even in a protected environment where they feel secure and with someone they have come to trust. It is why the police have such problems prosecuting the abusers and why so many abusers go unpunished.

I accept I could be wrong.