ive learnt over time not all is rosy and im not and never will be the perfect so called 'true' sub therefore how i feel being dominated is hard for me to put into words or a specific 'tag' to , as situations and feelings can vary at different times quite considerably.
icey, i think many people suffer the balance of D/s vs all that is vanilla and required in our lives, we just have to make allowances for those - i don't think those situations constitute whether we are 'true' subs or not, just realistic hehe - i think it's the 'essence' of the feeling when you are able to be dominated that counts *smiles*

gem,
xo