I received an email from a member here asking how to achieve 'full body Orgasms'. Unfortunately his profile prevents any emails being sent to him, so I was unable to directly reply. I figured it was a good question and worth posting here anyway, and hopefully he will see it here.

First off, most things to do with O-control are in the mind. The subbie needs to be able to open her mind to suggestion. By this I mean there needs to be a trusting relationship which will allow her to listen to what is being said and not analyze, reject or try to make things happen. She should just listen to the words and allow whatever happens to happen. Obviously, without the trust, the mind places barriers to protect itself from outside influences, and none of this will work if the barriers are up.

Providing your subbie allows herself to be susceptible to suggestion, you will be able to give her a full body Orgasm in reallife, or even over the phone. Any physical actions I describe can be done by the Dom or the subbie, the truly important part is the voice that creates suggestions for her mind. Like hypnotism, the best voice is a soft soothing, almost monotone, that is easy for the mind to listen to, almost subconsciously. Exclamations and varied speech jar the mind to be alert and interrupt the mindset.

The first step is to have your subbie very aroused, as close to the edge as possible without actually cumming. Whether you use a vibrator, your hands, her hands, etc. is irrelevant - use whatever works best for her. Now, while keeping her very aroused, you use your (or her) free hand to lightly run the finger tips over her body. In your soothing voice, explain how the energy from her arousal is flowing through the body and coming out wherever the finger tips lightly caress. Get her to actually feel the arousal wherever she is touched. It is best to start with the inner thighs because during arousal they are extremely sensitive, and so it truly will feel like part of the arousal is being transferred there. The nipples and breasts are also obviously good early targets, but with your continued soothing suggestions to her mind, you will be able to venture to all parts of her body. Keep reinforcing all the areas you have touched and 'transferred' the arousal to. "I have already made your thighs feel the arousal, and then your breasts, and now we will also move it to your arms". Etc., etc.

This light touching should extend for at least 20 minutes, while still keeping her as close to on edge as possible. After this time her whole body will feel 'alive'. Remember to keep talking to her all the time - because of the sensations she is feeling she probably will not respond much - in fact, if she does reply to you in anything other than a dreamy sorta voice, it means she is concentrating too hard on your words and hasn't achieved the mindset where she just opens her mind to your suggestions

Instead of the usual 'cum for me now', I would suggest a command more like "I want your whole body to cum for me now".

With practice at this, you will be able to 'touch' all of her body with just your words. "feel my fingers lightly brushing your thigh, feel the energy of the arousal flow thru my fingers and spread all through your thigh"

Eventually, like with cum-on-demand it won't take the 20 minutes, you will just be able to say: "feel the arousal in all parts of your body... and have your body cum for me now"

And hey - if it doesn't work for you, I am sure you both will still have a lot of fun practicing and trying

Now let’s discuss what really happened.

When deeply aroused all of the body does become more sensitive - all that you are doing is making your subbie more aware of it. Normally, the excitement of being on edge is too much for the mind to deal with and it concentrates on just one place - you are teaching her mind to feel the rest of her body also. By directing her thoughts to the other parts being touched, you are making it easier for her to stay closer to the edge. Because she has stayed on edge so long, her orgasm will be much more powerful, and so even if she doesn't feel it elsewhere, she will still love what you did.

Finally, understand there is no magic or devious tricks here. Allow your subbie to also read this so she knows exactly what you are doing and trying to achieve. Her mind will be more open to the suggestions if there are no surprises in your words.

And - don't expect this to all work on your first attempt. It takes practice. And even if it never works, it will still be extremely enjoyable. O-control is not about failures - it’s about practicing at getting better

Brosco