My Mistress wants to give me a very painful with hard cramps. We have never tried enemas. But both want me to learn pain is good for slave. We have read about cold tap water. 2qt water 1 cup lemon juice and soap. Is this a good one to start with.[ Butt pug for ten mintue. While being spank. Mistress just had me add this part] Being a sub is the some fun in life i've ever had. I love learning to obey. We live in Binghamton ny.