Icehawk and i met online we spoke for a few weeks before meeting up,he was one of the few Doms i had spoken to that didnt do the kneel slut i am Dom hear me roar crap or insist on meeting up after the first chat,so i liked straight off.

he made sure i had his details car reg number phone number met in a public place give the details to a friend promised me we'd stay in public etc which he said was not only to make me feel more comfortable if i were ever to meet anyone else from the net and that made me feel safer.

admittedly i was nervous about meeting up,other than dress in a certain way for him he didnt set any rules or expectations of kinky sex exhibitionism etc for that first night...in fact it was me that expected and wanted that lol

although i wanted to for a good few meetings he wouldnt do anything too heavy when playing so that we were both comfortable,for me so that i felt safe and not scared s*****s when he restrained me and got the toys out wondering what the hell this 'stranger' might do next and for his safety too,for all he knew i could have been they type of person who panicked if things went wrong and ran off screaming assualt or worse!!

so we built on our r/ship gradually,it worked out for us and nearly 4 yrs on were still together and planning on marrying in the near future.
we were lucky