What does it take to be considered a switch?

[Ruby]

So, do you have to switch back and forth at will to be considered a switch? Or would I be considered one because I am already playing both roles? What is your take on the subject?

My take?

A person doesn't have to switch back and forth at will to be considered a switch.

It's a very special partner that can switch with a switch. My pet, Nat, likes to put on his dom hat every now and then. We can switch in the middle of a session, or carry a play session all the way through in the same roles with which we began. Yet my hubby, T, is all dom all the time.

That you can take your roles into your relationship with your hubby and make it even better is fantastic.

A person is considered a switch if they enjoy both of the top/bottom roles. Again, they may find that they enjoy one role with one partner and the opposite role with another.

Call yourself what you want and have a great time. I find my "domming" Nat has helped me to be a better "sub" with T and vice versa.

Who's next?