LOL I dont know if I see myself that way or not. I have a HUGE tattoo on my lower back, a present from my last pet, that says "Mistress" on it. I feel most of the time that way. My mind is always thinking of how I would do things to my subs, even when I am submitting to my husband. However, I do enjoy the role with him. When he is tying me up, or binding me, it amazes me how relaxed I get. Ive never been able to relax like that, I usually panic.

Thanks for your responses, they have all given me alot to think about