ok the first question is pretty simple, what is your safety word? I ask because master and I needed one but the best we could do is kiwi, i was curoius what others use

my second question is how much control does the dom have in the relationship, like does your punishment come in a certain way? Like in this one story i read over at adultfanfiction.net this couple is in BDSM and every time the sub does something wrong or breaks her master's rules he writes down a punishment in a notebook and she must copy and sign, but if she doesn't agree she can come to a compromise, anywayz you should check it out, it's a great story but thats off topic. My master has a point system. i start off at 0 and i have to earn points and i get rewarded, but if i misbehave i get negative points and bad things will happen or so i am told. So does any one else have something like that in their relationship?

does the question make any sense at all?