As a complete novice - in that I have never been to a party or had to search for a like-minded mate - I would say it must be damned near imposible to pinpoint a predator with evil intent, especially as all they have to do to get what they're after is to come across as 'nice.'


So, surely it has to be down to the subs - girls or boys - to take responsibility for their own safety. You have to have a set of rules to stick to - and stick to them rigidly in the event of desire or alcohol, or both, lowering your resistance.