It really worries me that so many subs seem to have suffered abuse. It's not a prerequisite of the job title - although I can understand how young girls may get sucked into this kind of behaviour. But, with all respect for the pain you've been through, Sammi, I want to make a point of saying that no man has ever hit me without my permission.

Yep, I've always known - it's definitely in the blood - but I haven't got the first clue why not that it matters.

I didn't become whole until I met my husband. I needed him as much as he needed me. The fact that he has control of my life makes me stronger.