Quote Originally Posted by TomOfSweden View Post
I think it's a cultural thing. Being submissive is somehow considered to be the result of some kind of damage so subs tend to go out of their way to find this traumatic thing to explain their abnormal behaviour, no matter how silly this trauma is. I don't think pervyness is the result of a trauma. Not at all.

I really hope this isn't true - it certainly isn't for me. I mentioned on another thread how worrying it was that so many subs seem to have been abused and I really hope that those who haven't will stand up and disprove this.