I think Tojo may have been in a rather cynical mood when he said 99.9% was original content....poor fellow had a tiff with his dream girl.

Anyway- smartypants Aesop hit the nail on the head by saying the Internet hasn't always been around- it was the 60s in Australia when I realised my kink.

Just me, the odd willing girl & a piece of rope. I discovered self-bondage when I was in single digits, discovered the ice release in my teens, & the joys of duct tape soon after.

Not til my late 30s did I realise I wasn't the only person who'd ever tied themselves up, although I discovered HOM magazines & FE Cambell books long before. I've still got Libby Curtis tying herself up in an old magazine....

You guys who discover the scene & can log onto the interet & look at such things as Gromets' site- http://www.grometsplaza.com/ don't need much imagination! It's all there in black & white.

I was thinking also of the fact that so many of 'my' fellow Dom/mes are into a totally different scene to me. It's all far too black & white, I love the sublety, the nuances, the feelings a few words can bring. I like my girls to want to please me, not to punish them for not doing so.

I'm glad I've found a few like minded subs & Doms here, & on other forums.

Hi silke & Ed. Oh there is no 'right track' Edmond, just a few thoughts is fine by me.

Tojo