Most of my friends know, it could be age or the enviroment around us but they took it in streads and did and said the samething that cg's friends said..."if it makes you happy, do you"...
They have always known im kinky, but maybe not as kinky as most of them know now..but i really do trust my 'nilla friends and i wouldnt be friends with them if i didnt feel i could trust them with the most important things in my life.

But i know for most it can be a problem for, and i feel very badly about that for most who are probably the most caring and loyalest ppl, are shafted because of their life choice.

But i guess it's simular for a person who has a different sexual perfrences, what school they choice, where someone lives, etc.. Ppl are always going to judge but its sad when they do.