Quote Originally Posted by Brosco

I doubt there is a single thing that I do that is original, almost all I do I have seen posted somewhere, so even back then I was never really alone, I just didn't know there were others doing the same.

Brosco
What Brosco said. :-)

Though, I put my own "spin" onto things I want to try.

As a good friend of mine once said, "your generation didn't event sex, nor did the generation before it." We can substitute the word "BDSM" for "sex" and it still fits. LOL

As to how much we learn from others versus our own trial and error, I think the Internet has become a great tool for research and sites like this are fantastic for finding like minded people. Especially when location and shyness prevent in-person meetings.

The Internet has had a huge positive impact on my BDSM life. Just the plethora of ideas -- that I wouldn't have come up with on my own, yet are waiting to be tried -- can cause a pussy meltdown when pondered.