"Barely Submissive"- A Question of Being

[tessa]

Tessa and All,

This is a Great topic I think

Thanks. You're kind to say so.

In my entire Life I have only actually Submitted to 2 other PPL. And I am primarily Dominant with others. Does that make me "Barely Submissive"? Or does that just make me Knowledgable enough and Experienced enough to Know the differences of what Is and what is not?

For me, "Barely Submissive" means I have walked and struggled through the Fire, and I have come out the other side Whole. It means I have the opportunity to continue to Grow and Learn, and I have and I will. Respectfully~SidheWolf

I got so much from your words here. Thanks again.

Seeing this thread, I realize that maybe those glimpses into the submission weren't as far off base as I re-thought they were.

So thank you for your words and insights.

And thank you right back for your comments. You didn't know how you'd be helping either, I'm guessing.

I’ve never thought about dom as high and sub as low as in hierarchy which is vertical but rather horizontal as in dom/sub in a power exchange. She may be at my feet but if I’m not in tune with her needs I may as well be at hers.

This was very well stated. I appreciate your thoughts here. My thanks to you as well.

tessa