I agree with Playfulsub and Tufty that this is the best BDSM forum around. I belonged to several others before I came here. Three of them were basically pick up sites and I am not in the market for a new Master. The other two were very elitist and it was pointed out to me several times on each forum that I didn't belong in either one. I stumbled upon this one by accident and have really enjoyed my time here so far.

I am more formal than some other subs here, in that I call Dom/mes "Sir" and "Ma'am." But that was the way that I was trained and no one has had a problem with that. On some other sites I didn't appear to be formal enough (ie, I wasn't the doormat they expected me to be). And on the more informal sites some jumped down my throat when I appeared too formal. Luckily, though, I've reached a happy balance here on this site. I'm glad that I found it, because I feel more at home than at any other site.