Quote Originally Posted by greeneyes
my fantasy world is very very rich. sometimes it is more real,more rich then my every day life.here, i'm hoping to raise the bar here. not all of us have had the courage to make that life real
greeneyes,

I would never want to take away from your fantasies and I admire how rich they can be for you, I also admire that you can admit to that when sub'wife questioned you, so please do not take my following words the wrong way.

There are many in the various forums (not just BDSML) that try to portray fantasy as fact. Please don't fall into that trap. I believe you are genuine and want to enter this world. Feel free to express your fantasies, they are part of who you really are, but if you want to let people to get to know you and maybe even meet MrRight, I suggest you make it clear to readers what is real and what is fantasy - or even fantasy that you would want to make real. Nobody will judge you for it not being real, they will enjoy your posts just as much, but they will respect your honesty most - and that is an integral part of the journey you are taking.

Brosco