Well, it's all about context.

I'll tell you where the context is wrong though... and all too often this is what I see people talking about... the submissive having "patience" and "waiting" for the dominant to make his/her appearance... but that seems to be an excuse for the dominant actually saying "I'm not in the mood right now" or "I'm really more interested in playing with someone else right now." That kind of patience training is B.S.

On the other hand, I'm very much enjoying teaching my sub patience... making her wait on her orgasms and not allowing her to beg or ask for them in the meantime. And we're not talking about a tortuous online CR task here... I mean, eye to eye, face to face, my hands on her body, coaxing the orgasm out of her while she resists and wait for my permission.

Yeah, I used to like to hear her beg... but one day I realized, she had become so orgasmic she always started asking before I was finished playing with her... so now I make her wait... and I love knowing/seeing her eyes on me... waiting for me to nod or whisper 'cum'... to let her have her release...

And (imo) her orgasms are even better now... she cums harder both in person and on-the-phone or online... because of course I tease her higher and higher and make her cum harder and harder for me.

The words... "squeeze... squeeze... squeeze... cum" have created some spectacular results for me. But then... I do have 'The Voice' at my command too.