Quote Originally Posted by Tojo View Post
It can be a recipe for disaster saying 'this is how to do so & so to a sub'

Everyone is different, as is every situation- however minute the difference may be.
I must agree, and would temper my example with the warning that of course not every technique works with every sub. As with pretty much all things in this lifestyle, there is no one size fits all, and so everyone figures out for themselves what works best. However, that being said, since it seemed the aim of neitsyst2's question was to see if Dom/mes taught patience, and if they did, how, I felt an example was prudent. I doubt anyone would be foolish enough to say "this is how it should be done regarding [insert subject here]".

Edit: actually Mysterious Fun says it quite well- that's similar to one of my tecniques.


*waits to see how others deal with patience*