I would like to weigh in on this if I may. This is my first posting so please bear with me.

I belong to a lot of the adult breast feeding forums on yahoo and others and mostly lurk there because I think that milleu is such that what I would have to say would probably not be well received and really .. life is too short. I feel better about it here so I'll give it a go

I'm an RN by training but there is a huge difference from that as a profession and ones own personal indulgences for eroticisim/sexual needs-fulfillment - they should never meet. That said, I have always had this thing for women's breasts and love women who revel in it themselves.

The information most give is accurate to a point in terms of physiology, but, IMHO it needs to be look at from a more wholistic point of view. That is taking in all of the psycho sexual implications of a woman's breasts, what they mean to her, and the desire to experience lactation.

Geez .. I hope this isn't sounding too dry .. please forgive as I do not respond to these things too often.

Let me address the psycho sexual implications first. This is the part that is usually skipped or danced around in the venues I had alluded to earlier. Self honesty is an absolute must. I cannot overemphasize how important that aspect is especially for the woman. She really must be ok with admitting to herself and her partner that is is her breasts that hold her fascination or even preoccupation (perhaps even fetish) in the sense of they are her major triggers for sexual arousal and that fulfilling that to satisfaction is the key to all other things sexual, and, ultimately coital. - sounds pretty normal to me!

No, really, I am unabashedly a "breast man", and, if I may, I do have a counterpart, the "breast woman". I like to say, "all women have breasts, but not all women are 'breast women'". I'll give a url at the end where breast people, men and women, go into this and I urge all to take a look and see if they can understand. I honestly seek out such women because to me it really is much kinder and gentler to go out there and ask for exactly what you want. Again, this is the important matter of self-honesty that I was talking about. All the women who I've had the pleasure of knowing or communicating frankly about this have, to a person, said that they have never been able to say to a lover "make love to my tits" and really revel in it for the total fulfillment of her needs. Trust me, as a "breast man", the fulfillment of her needs is the fulfillment of my needs! So you can see, absolute self-honesty, especially on the part of the woman, is an absolute must!

Please forgive as I can see I am going to run long on this .. please let me know if this is helpful and would like me to continue

Until the next installment

Be Well