Quote Originally Posted by DOMLORD View Post
jump out in a gimpsuit and yell, "use me!!"
While DOMLORD's suggestion might lack just a little tact (LOL!!), i think a more subtle approach might be in order (sheeesh!). You say you are untaught, then here comes lesson number one. Communication. Absolutely. You need to talk to her, be open and honest about your true nature, otherwise, the whole relationship becomes a lie. If you can't be YOU, then why continue? Talk to her over a bottle of wine in a nice quiet setting, and trust your instincts....gimpsuit....jeeeeeeeeeeez...LOL!