Quote Originally Posted by icey View Post
i guess much as i dont want to i have to bow out which i feel im letting her down for but what else can i do?

aaagh the silly girl! for the first time ever i want to be the one doing the flogging!

sorry,vent over lol
*hugs* icey, you're such a sweetie and I've been in your position and yes, sadly all you can do is voice your own thoughts and experiences and hopefully get her to see the light. There are plenty of good sites out there to learn from but if you are set on one way, no amount of coaxing is going to change it and especially if she's being offered thrills and excitement where we are offering safety and patience (sounds boring and not quick enough to the eager newb unfortunately)

I, like you, hope she takes at least a little time to heed your words and hopefully you've at least planted a small seed of doubt that may yet grow