As few have stated most of the submissives on here are on here for cheap thrills, both female and males. I wont judge them, and i have no right to judge them, but as nei, and tyd have mention we are just more chatty, and open about certain things, "we meaning females" not saying the males arent, or that the Dominants arent but we just want to know and explore, and what better way then to Post a thread in our section, or speak with a few in chat rooms.

From what ive notice it seems to be like that in most chat rooms and in real life gatherings. More females compared to the quality of good Men out there. Both bdsm wise and 'nilla it seems to be more females, out and about with their wants, needs then there are with males.

I for myself dont post "starting threads" i usually read and take in my information and when i have a question, i will go to someone who's been in alittle longer then myself and ask them. As the sweet nei said, some just want to lurk and read, not post anything until they feel they have something valid to say lol..