Quote Originally Posted by Heather_21
. But, how does one overcome the great insecurity of "What if I'm not enough? What if I'm not good enough?"
Heather-perhaps you could change your introspective questions to

"What if he's not enough? What if he's not good enough for me?"

If you can look for a balance then you may come to conclude you're OK as you are.

I think a lot us here reckon you are.