I know for my Master and I it was a matter of me realizing that the relationship that he has with me is different than the relationship that he has with anyone else. I had to see that I was obviously special to him because he kept coming back and interacting with me. I needed to realize that he was spending time with me because he wanted me. In turn I also realized that whoever else he was spending time with what we have is different and special too and that there is nothing to be jealous about. Granted, I always want him to myself and there are days when I get frustrated when he's playing with someone else and not me, but if it's really bad, I simply talk to him about it. There is always some little thing that reminds me that he loves me and that he wants me no matter what.

I think as long as you can see that he cares for you Heather, and that he makes time to spend with you, you don't have to worry about the other girls cause he's obviously still coming to you. I don't think it has to do with you not being enough either. It's all about experiencing different things. It's nice to play with different people every once in awhile.

I don't know if this helped at all, but I hope so. Feel free to pm me if you like.