Quote Originally Posted by fetishdj View Post
With the 'male sub' thing in mind... it is worth mentioning that many men who are dominant in real life often have submissive tendencies, almost as if they are trying to balance out the dominance they have in life. I've also noticed this in women - some women who are in dominant positions in work often have submissive tendencies in private.
The same is said for female submissives so I think it's a 'submissive' trait not gender specific