After our first time in bed together, Kathy changed in a way that I found to be most intriguing. As a person, she became much more open and willing to share some of her most private thoughts with me. She gave me a brief history of her past, along with her likes and dislikes.

She had several hobbies, one of which was making jewelry. She got the idea of making a cockpin for me, and produced several, some of which were plated with silver and were quite intriguing. For those that don't know, I cockpin is a rod that is capped with a button and inserted in the urethra. The diameter of the rod is usually about an 1/8 inch (3.2mm) and the button is about 1/2 inch (6.4mm) around; the button prevents the pin from getting "lost."

I related my story to her about my experience with Lottie (see my post of August 30, 2003, titled "Introduction, Part 2, for details) and Kathy responded by making several ball stretchers, all out of leather, some that were laced and some with snaps. I didn't think about it at the time but later, when I thought back to that day (it was early spring and we were out on one of many long walks) I never mentioned Lottie by name.

She kept the cockpins and stretchers along with her other toys, of which she had a considerable variety. Her toys were in two categories; those that she used for masturbation and those that were for stretching. All of her masturbatory toys were of hard plastic or Plexiglas. She had several vibrators, but they were for stimulating her clitoris only. She was only able to reach climax by holding a vibrator against her clit. Her favorite vibe was a plug-in type that had a rubbery cup-shaped attachment that completely covered her clitoris. She used her dildos for insertion, and always had at least one in each of her holes. During masturbation, she would use one hand to hold the vibrator against her clit while her other hand stroked the dildo in her vagina or anus. She would, on a routine basis, remove the dildo from her vagina and clean it with her mouth, as she very much liked the taste of her own juices. When nearing climax, she would stroke the vaginal dildo into herself very hard, as she like the feeling of it banging into her cervix. I know these facts because, on several occasions, she would have me sit in a chair next to the bed so that I could watch her get herself off. She would pull my pants down and tell me to sit in the chair and not touch myself. During her "performance," she would look at my crotch to see I was becoming aroused. Kathy always started these sessions by laying on her back, knees pulled up and back, and holding herself open for me. She wanted me to tell her what I thought of her holes and if I thought she was holding them open wide enough. The first few times we did this, I saw that it was very hard for her to bring me into her fantasies, especially those of such an intimate nature.

She was more reluctant to demonstrate how she went about her stretching. I learned that I had been present several times while she was stretching herself, but wasn't aware of it. When stretching, she always wore a large, cotton house robe that was several sizes to large for her. And, she always used the time while the dildo(s) was inserted to polish her nails, both on her hands and feet, to read one of her many romance novels, or just to sit and meditate.

The dildo she used most often for stretching was called a Stump. It was about 11 inches (275mm) long and 3 inches (76mm) wide. This dildo was not intended to look like a penis, other than for being long and having a rounded end. She would get a small makeup case that held her nail polishing items, along with the dildo and a towel. She would fold and lay the towel on the bed, take a small container of lubricant from her makeup case, lube the dildo, then insert it.

As you can imagine, I found the sight of her inserting this huge toy to be a great turn-on. Kathy would get on her knees and squat over the dildo, holding it steady with one hand. Then, she'd lower her hips until the head of the dildo was pressing against the lips of her vulva. I had never seen anyone with outer labial lips as big as Kathy's and, when standing behind her, especially if her thighs were held together, they appeared even bigger. She would press herself onto the dildo, raise up slightly and adjust her position, then lower herself down again. She did this up and down movement until she got the huge head of the dildo in just the right position, then she would press her hips down onto the shaft. As the dildo began its insertion, her labial lips would press inward until they were almost no longer visible, then would appear to pop back out as soon as the head of the dildo entered her vagina. Kathy would then press down a little more, until about two inches of the dildo had entered her. Then she would rise up, letting the dildo slide out slightly, then press down again. She repeated this over and over, each time pressing a little more of the dildos length into her. Once half the length of the dildo was inserted, her downward motions became decidedly more forceful. She kept continued lifting her hips and pressing down until she reached the limit of her tolerance.

At this point, all but the last inch of the dildo was protruding past her vulva. The insertion was, for her, a challenge of some sort and she was determined that, one day, she would be able to insert it's full length into her. Once the dildo was in place, Kathy would sit on top of the towel and arrange the robe around her so that everything looked normal. She said she had always wore a robe when she did her stretching, even when she was alone.

For her anal stretching, she used a two butt plugs, one large and the other absolutely huge (six inches around - 152mm). She would use the "smaller" plug first, to help loosen herself up, then use the larger plug. She wasn't able to fully insert the larger plug, but was able to accommodate at least half of its width. As with the dildo, she wanted to be able to fully insert this plug in her ansu.

While stretching, Kathy never stimulated herself. To her, was just another form of exercise.