We like rituals. We have a mantra that we wrote together which we often say to each other and plan to have it as part of our collaring ceremony early next year.

I do have things I'm expected to wear at all times, like my collar and dresses and skirts only, unless I'm working out or have special permission. I am not allowed to wear panties unless with permission.

We usually sit on our deck after dinner with a cup of hot tea while talking and enjoying each other's company.

We always go to bed at the same time.

And my personal favorite is that we have Friday Night spanking. We decided that a scheduled spanking once a week would keep us focused on our D/s. Plus, it's so very intimate and often leads to much more then a spanking.